Farewell.

It started very nice but now i understood this is not what i expected. after 10 minutes trying to talk in chat and getting ignored by 12 active people in chat. I think is completely useless for new people to join this site. Or at least it was for me.

It's really not nice to ignore people just because you know them less.
A total disappointment.
Everything was going very nicely, i don't know why , from when Heero has come back, people in the chat started to behave differently. (got nothing against him in the first place,and i don't mean its his fault in any way, i just say what i see.)

You all will think is my imagination, no problem with that, but all the days i've been here i got never , even once got ignored, and now all of a sudden after 10 minutes trying to say something in chatbox, on 12 people talking i got completely ignored by all of them.

Didn't expect this kind of behavior. I hope if some other newbie come by, they don't get the same treatment.

to express better what i felt as a new user here, today, i can say that i felt so much out of place, as if i was invisible since all the others were already friends.

Thanks anyway to some, for trying..

So your telling me you are leaving because no one paid you any mind? I'm sorry but I feel you are over-reacting about this...but no. It does happen in the CB to where people get ignored, heck I get ignored sometimes. But I am not getting mad at them for that, really most of the time their just caught up with other people in the CB. You should not take it so offensively like an insult toward you if you are ignored.

Really though, if you are feeling repulsed by the site for one action, then I do suggest you take a break from the site. At least long enough to clear your head and then make a final decision, to avoid being rash.

Aww, It's sad to see you go Atsui. I really hope I never ignored you, apologies if I did. The cbox is very busy though, and probably a fourth of my messages aren't seen or are ignored, and I'm a fairly well-known member around here(or at least my main is). We've had some cool times in the cbox, too, and when there's 12 people? I think almost no one's messages get noticed with so many people. Like Were said, please think about it and make a final decision, after all, the cbox isn't the only place on the site.

Take it from a man who spent over half his life alone out of fear. Friends aren't made overnight or in a day they are made over weeks or possibly even months.

Lavender, no you weren't in the people who ignored me.

I do understand the chat can be busy, but after i write 6 or 7 messages, it doesn't matter how people are busy , its impossible that no one read any of the message, since they are reading a chat and following all other people, which mean they just ignore, what they don't care about.

I can understand also that 1 message or 2 might be not seen i did miss message too when people say hello or other short things, but if someone try to talk and write a line or 2 long sentence, then i don't think its possible to miss it with 12 people in the chat.

Also weretiger, trust me , i didn't get mad, as other people saw in CB when i write it might look im mad or something, but i'm not, it's just disappointment, not anger.

I would stay for the nice people i met here, but that would not do any good, since they can be pretty fine if i'm here or not, i didn't stay enough time to be missed by people i think.

So again, i'm not angry, but i don't like some things, and it's not that i can check the forum often only to see, if the people that was nice are online or not.

I know a group of people that are friends from years, will never accept a critic from someone who just stayed a bit more then a week, but that is the limit of people, instead of trying to understand why someone leave, they just point a finger and give fault, since it's easier to do as a group.

Vampire, it's not a friend or not question, i don't mind if they don't like me or they do, it's about respect. And if you say something in chat i do answer, if you are friend of mine or not.

You can even tell me, we are busy. or sorry no time to answer you , or whatever. But ignoring is not about friend or not, is about been polite or not.

P.S i will drop by in the chatbox, to have a chat with the people i found very nice once in a while, if it's not proibited by any forum rules.